Balancing Home and Community

How to Be a “Domestic Diva” in Miami

Being a Domestic Diva in Miami is no small feat! From navigating the vibrant lifestyle of the city to managing household chores, it’s all about finding that perfect balance. So, what’s the most “Domestic Diva” thing I’ve done lately? Well, I recently changed my front door handle and took out my trash—talk about telling you I’m single without saying I’m single! How do I juggle my fabulous Miami life with my never-ending to-do list? Let’s just say I have about three ongoing lists at any given time. One of those lists is shared with my mom, which adds a delightful layer of chaos: “Remind mom to look at the to-do list!” Honestly, if you could see our family group chat, you’d think we were planning a wedding every week instead of just figuring out who’s bringing the guacamole to Sunday dinner!

Embracing Miami’s Culture at Home

When it comes to embracing Miami’s culture at home, it’s all about the little touches. My favorite home décor essentials? Aside from a perfectly lit candle, I love having weekly flowers to fill my oversized vase! (The more, the merrier, am I right?) There’s something magical about those blooms that brings me joy and makes my house feel semi-put-together (even if the laundry is still sitting in a pile on the couch). Speaking of local flavor, let’s talk about food! Growing up just a block away from my abuela, Cuban cuisine is a must. I can practically hear her voice saying, “Mija, pero ¿por qué no comes más?” This year, I’m diving into the world of cooking Cuban dishes and attempting to share her cherished recipes. If you find croquettes under your Christmas tree this year, you’ll know I’ve finally nailed it! And if they’re burnt, well, that just means they were made with extra love, right?

Organizing for a Busy Lifestyle

Now, let’s get real about efficiency. The most outrageous time-saving hack I’ve tried? Packing my bag the night before 🤯 I know, mind-blowing! And while we’re on the topic of being a well-prepared adult, setting my coffee up the night before is another game changer! Not only has it made me feel more put-together, but it has also saved me precious minutes in the morning—those minutes I would typically spend staring blankly into the fridge, wondering if I can create a breakfast miracle with yesterday’s leftovers. As for my cleaning schedule, let’s just say I have levels to my cleaning madness. Most days, I set a timer for 10 minutes and blitz through the house like a tornado. Once a week, I dedicate a deep cleaning day where I turn into a domestic warrior armed with a mop and a playlist of my favorite 90s hits. Oh, and then we have the “therapy days” where I invite my OCD to join me for some serious organization! Pure bliss! I pick a space that needs attention, dive in, and bask in the satisfaction of a job well done. Seriously, is there anything more satisfying than finding a long-lost sock in the depths of your closet? 

Hosting with Style

Hosting is my jam, and I’ve had some unforgettable parties! The wildest had to be my Halloween bash, where I went all out with decorations. Picture this: a 20-foot spider that greets you at the driveway—so big you could drive a truck under it! Years later, I still have complete strangers telling me about my party! At this point, I’m convinced I should start charging admission. If that isn’t a success story, I don’t know what is.

Recently, I decided to host a “Taco Tuesday” night, thinking it would be a laid-back affair. I invited a few friends and promised a spread of delicious toppings. Well, let’s just say my enthusiasm got the best of me! I ended up with enough guacamole to feed a small army and more salsa than I could shake a tortilla chip at. By the end of the night, I was practically rolling around my living room, trying to convince my friends to take some home. Now, every time I see a taco truck in Miami, I can’t help but laugh and remember that epic night of taco-induced joy—and the sheer number of leftovers that turned my fridge into a salsa museum!

Self Care

After a long day, my go-to self-care routine might seem a bit hippy-dippy, but hear me out! I kick off my shoes and walk barefoot on the grass. Sometimes I even lay down and soak up the earth. I can only imagine how it looks from the outside—like I’ve completely lost it—but hey, it’s my therapy! Plus, it’s the perfect way to connect with nature and remind myself that, despite the chaos, I’m still grounded.

So, what’s my personal motto as a Domestic Diva? “Clear is kind.” In a world full of chaos, a little kindness goes a long way. Whether it’s helping a neighbor with their groceries or sharing a smile with a stranger, it’s those little moments that make life rich.

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